INVEST IN YOURSELF
Do you want to change your attachment style?
To speak up for yourself and overcome doubt?
To control your temper at the next family gathering?
To have a grip over your anxiety instead it controlling you?
To have confidence in your ability to manage the hurt from your past? Dealing with those pesky triggers.
Do you want to leave a legacy of a secure attachment style to your children and grandchildren?
We can work together either by talking on the phone or working directly with me and my dog Riley.
(I work with women only.)
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR GUIDANCE THROUGH MY PERSONAL STORY, I ENCOURAGE YOU TO READ MY SELF-HELP DEVOTIONAL, “GROWING IN RESILIENCE THROUGH TRAUMA & HARDSHIPS”.
Lisa fosters a safe, compassion-filled space where I benefit from her valuable wisdom, insight and resources which equip and empower me to progress in my personal growth and life journey.
Melissa
Carving a New Path
I longed for connection for many years. I lived with a sense of disconnect even within my relationships. My heart was deeply hurting, and I didn’t know how to fix it.
I lived somewhere between always being anxious or angry. I worked hard to overcome these influences in my life in counselling and at church, but I couldn’t get to where I wanted to be until I addressed the trauma in my life.
I was operating out of my triggers and therefore I was safe one minute and unsafe the next. This interfered with my relationships with my husband and children, and I wanted more.
Song: Pretty Woman - Van Halen
It is very difficult to live under the pressure and confusion from trauma. Experiencing Narcissistic abuse, codependency, neglect, trauma bonding or violence in the home is very hard on one’s body, mind and soul.
The trauma interferes with the connections we have with God, ourselves and others. Trauma is stored in the body and if we ignore it, we develop negative coping skills. These patterns cause harm to us and others because we have not dealt with them.
I had hard questions that I wanted answers from God about concerning my trauma. I have come to a good place with Him and slowly began to trust Him. He sent me various women to show me a better way to love and be loved. I hope to be one of these kind of women for you.
I would love for you to reach out to me. Together with my partner Riley, my Poodle, we can help you move beyond how your body holds tightly to your trauma and how that influences your choices.